A few posts ago I talked about Horses and Victims–about fear distorting how an animal or human deals with the world. Sometimes the reaction is a result of an over-sensitive individual having to put up with unaware or uncaring people, such as with my horse Glory. Sometimes it is a result of direct abuse. Recently I encountered an unexpected reaction which came from the latter source.
Last month I self-published a short story titled IMAGES – A LOVE STORY. Before I put it up I had several people critique and edit it. Everyone thought it was a sweet tale and seemed to enjoy it. Except for the last person who saw it. Her reaction totally astonished me.
My friend was extremely upset by the story. She thought the hero was manipulative, had ulterior motives and was not to be trusted. Going through it page by page, she pointed out all the suspect things he was doing. I was blown away by her interpretation of his actions. I would never have thought that about someone without a compelling reason. And frankly, she was amazed at the intensity of her reaction too. I’d really hit a hot button for her.
It seems she had been molested as a child and, even though she has been happily married for many years, that has skewed her view of men. Also, she has a daughter who has been in an abusive relationship, and she has worked with a battered women’s group. Talk about a different background from my nice, safe, sheltered life! While I understood where her response was coming from, I didn’t think most people would feel the same and didn’t change my story.
But the incident pointed out again how differently people can react to the same stimulus. I’ve entered my stories in contests and received both perfect scores along with quite low scores in the same contest. Some people seem to really like my writing and others don’t. I’ve only gotten a few reviews for my novel, WYOMING ESCAPE, and mostly they’ve been quite good. But I did get one person who didn’t like the heroine at all–thought she was wimpy. Other people have admired her guts. As the saying goes, “different strokes for different folks.”
All writers go through the same thing and have similar stories. But it’s interesting to speculate on what provokes such opposing opinions. What happened in the reader’s life to cause this reaction? Hmm, fodder for a new tale?
Have you encountered a really off-the-wall reaction to anything you’ve done? Were you able to discover the reason for the response?
If you’d like to read IMAGES and compare your reaction to my friend’s, you can find it for Free on Smashwords.
You can also find WYOMING ESCAPE on most online bookstores.
Gee, Kate, my sympathy goes out to your friend. The Abuse experience really does color everything the person see after that.
Absolutely, this business is all about perspective and is very subjective. Just got back some scores from a contest. They were similar to yours. With a basis of 100, I recieved 70, 90 and 98. LOL I haven’t taken time to read over the comments from the 70 judge. I will because they could well state some valid points. But it’s such a subjective deal. Picking out the helpful comments from the ones that are just personal opinion is a difficult task. But that’s what we have to do. Glad you stuck with your story as you did.